My daily "To Do" list is usually filled with a myriad of things that do nothing for me. You might be saying to yourself, "how can you get a "To Do" list wrong?" You can if your list is nothing more than a distraction to keep you from doing the real work. The really hard work that means you might have to actually go in the direction of your dreams. It's really hard to own this truth. In fact I am forcing myself in the last two months of this year to confront it. To wrestle with it. I will create a vision for my life. I will begin to cultivate friendships because I am willing to allow myself to be more vulnerable. I will seek opportunities to slow down and be present. I will listen more to the yearnings of my heart and those I hold close and absolutely adore.